Connection problem when trying to connect to nokia pc suite

I have an Ambicom bluetooth CompactFlash card for my laptop and I am able to send and receive files to my nokia 3650. But I can not get my phone to connect to Nokia pc suite. I have tried other drives that I have read about in other threads but all I get is error messages.

Eveything else seems to work fine. Should I be able to click on the icons at the bottom of my bluetooth neighborhood? Because there are a few icons listed but nothing happens when I try to click on them. I show a serial port listed on both device sometimes and sometimes my phone does not list any icons.