Email mess with 3230

Hello,

I got Nokia 3230 yesterday and spent a lot of time since learning it's capabilities.
And there is something I haven't got still, that's what concerns Emails.
Obviously there are some more functional pop3 E-mail clients available?
Certainly there is still options I haven't found yet. I hope someone here can help me to find what I have missed.

1. How do I can see which E-mails are latest one without opening each one, else there is just header and no date or time. Is there any options maybe how E-mails are displayed? Header + date /time maybe?

2. How do I see that there is new E-mails, my Email box doesn't show the total amount of Emails? Can I set it to display the total amount or new Email amount or something? Or a sound click at least - hey there something new! Else on the screen are displayed last E-mails I have scrolled to ...

3. How can I delete E-mails form my Email Inbox without deleting these from server?
There is usually 30-40 last E-mails in my server, set to be kept there for 24 hours, as to be able download these from different locations.
When I need to read one E-mail instantly, I have to download all 30-40 and then I can't delete any without deleting it also from the server. Other option is to delete from phone locally but this one doesn't delete the headers ... in my case it doesn't delete anything at all.
Doesn't make much of sense to me. Why this tiny box thinks that it's wise to delete messages from the sever also?
It might be an option to empty mailbox, if there is someone who doesn't have a PC at all and there is no other way to empty the mailbox.

Well, if I got it right, then 3230 owner can't ever anymore remove any E-mail header from his phone without deleting it from server, if you don't want to delete your message from server, then you must keep it in your phone as well, unil the phone memory is full :-((
Simply - the phone has only too options 1. delete message from server and phone 2. delete message from phone - the last is followed by the warning that the header will remain in my phone! But on the era of spam often there isn't anything else but the header of spam do delete???

i have found the headers update from the mailbox every time you connect
if you download the whole message, it will always stay in your phone until u delete it from the phone
if u do not download the header, next time u connect to mailbox, if email has been removed it will also be removed from your phone.