Pc Suite

Hi guys I am a true noob in all aspects of the word. I just bought a 3650 and have the latest PC Suite for it, but I can't get my phone to sync with my PC. It is the damndest thing. I use an exsternal Belkin USB to Bluetooth adapter. When I explore my bluetooth properties, my phone is hot, and I can connect/communicate/transfer files to my phone, no problems. But when I use the PC Suite, a message comes up saying "this is the first time you have used PC Suite, please connect your phone to your PC and then press "OK"."" I press "ok," but nothing ever happends. I try to do a manual connect from my bluetooth serial port, and it gives me a message of, "com0 will be used for the bluetooth serial port." I click "ok" and then it tells me that the connection is lost, and that my remote device disconnected the connection. What do I do. I can't seem to figure out any other way of installing the *.jar files without my pc suite. If there is, please let me know how to do it, but I'd prefer to use the pc suite. Thank you all those who can help me.

-sinxr8088