ok meeting set on:

ringtone tone- beep
incoming call alert - beep once
message alert tone - beep twice
vibrate alert - on
alert for - all calls

ok now if i call my phone it will beep and vibrate ONCE and thats it and if i send a text message to it, it makes once tiny beep and no vibration

If i change the incoming call alert to ringing, when i call the phone it beeps, vibrate and beep vibrate and so on, when i send a text it beeps once and then does nothing (stays the same)

Is there any way of setting meeting so it beeps once then vibrates continus when receiving a call and beep once and vibrate together when you get a text message?